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Why does it feel so hard to start a family today? How much of that is truly a personal choice?
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In this episode of The Gray Area, guest host Christine Emba sits down with journalist Anna Louise Sussman to discuss her new book, Inconceivable: The Impossibility of Family in an Age of Uncertainty. Together, they look past the surface-level "cost of living" arguments to explore how economic volatility, climate anxiety, and the commodification of reproduction are reshaping the way millennials and Gen Z think about parenthood.
00:00 Intro
01:43 Generational uncertainty
03:34 Empowerment of choosing to parent
08:54 “Project me” and parenting
15:36 Structural infertility and climate anxieties
30:18 Financialization of fertility care
39:39 Is uncertainty pushing more people away from parenthood?
Guest Host Christine Emba, columnist and author
Guest: Anna Luise Sussman, author Inconceivable: The Impossibility of Family in an Age of Uncertainty
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With the 2026 midterms fast approaching, we’re asking a simple question: What actually matters to voters right now?
In this midterm study guide, Vox’s Astead Herndon breaks down five forces shaping the election cycle. He examines the shifting foundations of both major parties—from Donald Trump’s rising unpopularity over inflation and foreign policy, to the ideological civil war within the Democratic base. Plus, Astead answers your questions about the growing influence of AIPAC funding, why "affordability" has become the central message for both parties, how data centers are triggering mass voter anxiety over the future of AI, and what Trump’s executive orders mean for the future of mail-in voting and election integrity.
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Is "adulthood" a moving target? For millennials, hitting the milestones of the past—homeownership, secure careers, and financial independence—feels tougher than ever. We aren't just having our individual midlife crises; we are simultaneously navigating an economic, cultural, and existential crisis, too.
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Guest host Jonquilyn Hill sits down with Amil Niazi, columnist at The Cut, to explore why this stage of life feels so precarious. From the domino effect of the 2008 financial crisis and the collapse of the traditional career path, to the pressures of the "sandwich generation" — caretaking for both children and aging parents — we break down why the millennial experience is fundamentally different from generations past.
00:00 Intro
01:43 The millennial economic domino effect
04:50 Redefining adulthood
07:45 Quarterlife vs midlife crisis
14:04 Is it late-stage capitalism?
21:42 The sandwich generation
38:24 Choosing optimism
Host: Jonquilyn Hill, host of Explain It To Me
Guest: Amil Niazi, columnist The Cut
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If you could change anything about your personality, anything at all, what would it be? And why would you want to change it?
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Writer Olga Khazan spent a year trying to answer those questions, and documented the experience in her new book Me, But Better: The Science and Promise of Personality Change.
In this episode, which originally aired in March of 2025, Sean speaks with Olga about the science of personality change, the work it takes to change yourself, and what makes up a personality, anyway.
00:00 Intro
02:16 What is ‘personality?’
08:07 Neuroticism and you
15:31 The ‘best’ personality
19:52 The science of personality change
29:57 Is being ‘well-adjusted’ always good?
31:38 Practical ways to make changes

Host: Sean Illing (@SeanIlling)
Guest: Olga Khazan, author of Me, But Better: The Science and Promise of Personality Change.
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